Sunday, November 10, 2024

How Do We Move Forward?

As time moved inexorably toward the elections, I kept telling myself to buckle up. I thought there would be fights, not necessarily physically, but people contesting the elections, for example. But I thought that when the dust settled, we would have some of the people in place, in some of the branches of government, who wanted to help the "little guy" - not just the poor (that too!), but the everyday working men and women, the retired, and the former service men and women - more than "helping" the billionaires.
When I was in sixth grade, I first learned about the three branches of government, which were designed as "checks and balances": the executive, the legislative, and the judicial. I learned that these three were in most levels of government: states and cities, for example, but we mostly learned about them in the federal government.
These three branches have served us mostly well for many years. I was a Republican for many years, but I don't think I ever envisioned having Republicans in the presidency, and in the majority in the Senate, and (it's looking like maybe it will be) in the House as well, and - additionally - having Republican-appointed judges in a strong majority on the Supreme Court...all three branches weighted heavily in one direction.
But now, on top of that, we have a particular brand of Republican - not meaning the average persons in their homes but in leadership - who has spoken and demonstrated a disregard, at times, for some of our other checks and balances and protections, and for the rule of law.
It's not a time for panic - well maybe for a day or two - but it is a time for action and planning.
Know that there will be people working and organizing peacefully to help keep things afloat and stable, and to help the marginalized. I've already heard from some of them (not heard from them personally, but in speeches or posts).
I'm going to recommend several things.
First, let's keep our faith in humanity and, particularly, faith in the good God. Whatever faith anyone has, and whatever happens, know that it isn't God who hurts people, but often poor choices on the parts of men and women. In our darkest moments, God is there for us if we call on him. He can console us and guide us and help us to know our worth. And we can do that for others too.
Second, community. Don't be hesitant to help in small ways, thinking it's not enough. We give five dollars a month to one local outreach, and yesterday, I received a call thanking us for that monthly donation. I had almost thought it was too little to be significant, but it's the power of multiplying, like the multiplication of loaves and fishes. Okay, that was a little different, as it was an actual miracle; except that yes, actually, Jesus did start with small amounts of food. So, that's what I'm talking about. Small amounts of help are still help, and they can be multiplied miraculously by God or humanely by people working together (or both). We can also help our communities by physically doing something for someone or taking action with others to get them what they need.
Third, health. We can do everything in our power to get the medical care we need and to help others to do so. But, since some things in medical care could change a bit, what can we do for prevention or improvement of our health? The past few days I've been taking a moment to indulge. But going forward, can we eat healthier? Can we get more exercise? What does that look like? Walking outside on nice days? Walking in a store when the weather isn't as good? Doing those stretches and weight bearing exercises at home that we like to avoid? I'm sure what we can do is different for each of us.
Fourth, frugality. One of my rules of thumb has always been that if I don't know what the future holds, I try to look at how I can be more frugal. Where have I been spending that I can cut back a bit? Interestingly, some of those things where we can cut back might also help with health, such as over-indulging in sweets, as well as smoking, drinking (doesn't have to be alcohol, could be coffee), etc. Sometimes, it's looking over the grocery receipts and figuring out where we can get the best buys on different kinds of foods.
Fifth, hobbies. I'm thinking here of frugal hobbies, maybe even hobbies which are productive, although they don't have to be. Sewing, knitting, or crocheting, building or repairing little household things, and gardening can all be productive hobbies (and there are many others!). But it's also helpful to practice art and recreation, just for our spirit, whether sketching, painting, singing, playing an instrument, playing a sport for fun or any number of other things.
If you've gotten this far, you might be thinking (if you're a Republican), what is she worried about, or (if you're a Democrat), how is all this going to help?? My own question would be more: How much is this going to help? And I honestly don't know. But some of the things I've listed here are how some of our ancestors survived and, just as importantly, helped others to survive during difficult times ("ancestors" sounds like so long ago, but I honestly mean just a few generations ago, like my parents and my grandparents). Also, the things I'm sharing can apply no matter who is in our government positions.
Now, when it comes to organizing to help specific groups of people who may be challenged or hurt in the days going forward, I don't know the answers. But that's why "community" was my second topic. When we find others who want to help or are already helping, sometimes they already have the ideas and the know-how and experience and can help us know how to help. Depending on our own circumstances, we are all called to different things, but let's take a moment to be open to what callings we might pursue.
Let us be brave, be generous, and go forward with hope and love.
   
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Tuesday, October 01, 2024

Let's Look for the Good in the World

Please don't believe everything you hear. The world is not "going to hell in a handbasket". (For younger people: that's an old expression.). I mean, there's a whole lot of bad stuff, and some of us have different opinions about who's behind some of the bad stuff, and even what's bad and what isn't.
But here's what I think we need to remember: There are always so many people willing to make sacrifices, small or large, to help others. There are people willing to risk their lives to save others' lives. Right now, there are many, many people willing to leave their families and the comfort of their homes to go help people who are suffering from a widespread natural disaster, Hurricane Helene's drastic damage.

Even in everyday life, there are people of every race, gender, nationality, and age (yes, from very young children - I see it often - to very old people) who will step up in some way to help someone else when they see a need and are able to fill it.

I'm not a Pollyanna. Believe me, I go through life with my eyes wide open. I read the news. I frequently read nonfiction books which show the seamy and sad and even shocking sides of life...in the hopes of finding ways to shine a light on it. But there is way more good in this world than there is bad!

We need to keep the darkness in perspective, and look more at the light than at the darkness. We need to keep the hate that's in the world at bay, and look more for the love. I wish I could remember who the author was who said, "Love means look for good."

Friday, April 12, 2024

Easter Blessing


I didn't post at Easter because I've been very busy, working on a book. But it's still the Easter Season. So I would like to share something I wrote a few years ago. 

Easter Blessing

We are each important to one another but most important is our God.

He made us and we are the work of his Hand.

He does not make us and let us go. He does not love us and let us go.

He made us and loves us…even to sending his Son…even to watching his Son die in agony…for us.

His Son came, suffered, and rose from the dead; that we might have life, and have it more abundantly…that we might know the greatness of His love for us.

He loves us with a tender love which knows our trials, knows what it is to be human.

He loves us with a nurturing love which knows what it is be mothered by the best mother on earth.

He loves us passionately. He who knows what it is to love passionately, both as God and as a human, caring for his family and friends when he was on earth.

He loves us with a faithful love, an everlasting love, preparing for us a place, a place of beauty and joy.

He is risen. Let us rejoice!


Saturday, March 09, 2024

It's a Gray Day but Spring Will Come Again

Picture: A patio with large trees behind it and gray sky 

The sky is overcast and gray here in my neck of the woods. It's lightly raining. The forecast predicts more rain and possible coastal flooding. 

The "news and views" we hear in the world sometimes cause us to feel like a gray day inside too and - like the concerns of possible flooding for those on the coast - we sometimes fear many things. 

But all we can do is do our part, pray, and trust that spring will come again. While it's fine to plan (and I'm a big planner), we can still live each day as it comes. Maybe that's why Jesus said to pray: "Give us this day our daily bread." Maybe it was not only a way to pray but maybe also a way to live. 

And here are some bright yellow flowers to signal the coming of spring. 

Picture: Daffodils beginning to bloom in the yard...a sign that spring is coming